outback to jungle

Musings on experiences of volunteering in Papua New Guinea with some gratuitous domestic social and public comment

Saturday, September 23, 2006

It is fascinating that in "Mateship Australia"

that one can't have an opinion outside the the 52% mainstream majority without being derided by someone as a "sad bitter loser". The Australia of the Australian Values I grew up with was an egalitarian, democratic and respectful people. The shock jocks are responsible for some of the put downs and discourtesy on mates in Mateship Australia but a decline in the spirit of tolerance and a more individual and anonymous culture are changing our values consciousness to one which my grandparents would not recognise. My Mother and Uncle and Aunty can't understand why I have the views I do but they don't resort to to deriding me with the "twisted bitter loser" line. It's a form of bullying which once upon a time was not part of our culture.
Fortunately there is help for people prone to bullying behaviour but often they do not realise their insults are a form of bullying. It's not necessary to bully other people but bullies need to assert themselves by putting other people down and thus to make themselves feel better.

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